Beauty is such important subject for women. And this is actually programed by nature. For man, his sexuality is very much connected to the eyes. To seeing woman. And in fact his brain is designed to fantasies about women’s body parts on a regular basis.
For women our approach to erotic play, to sensuality, to sexuality is very different. We approach it more trough our feeling senses. We need to feel connection, to feel bounded, to feel love and them begin opening up sexually.
Because men has the visual sense as something very important for his erotic arousal, it’s very natural that a women would like to by seen by the men. She has a longing to be sen, to be recognized and to be an attractive.